5.2.3 - Teach 2 (20 min)
Being "Real" or "Fake" Online (20 minutes)
DIVIDE students into groups of four or five.
ASK: What do you think it means to be “real” or “fake”?
ASK: Do you think it’s easier for people to be “fake” online than in real life? Why or why not?
EXPLAIN to students that they will be watching a video in which a teen explores these questions.
SHOW students the video, “Ramon’s Story - Being Real Online.”
ASK: Ramon talks about how some people exaggerate or seem very different online than in person. How do you explain these differences between their online and in-person personas?
Guide students to draw on points that Ramon has made. He thinks some people want to seem tougher or cooler than they are offline so they will be more accepted.
ASK: Are there risks for creating an online presence that is very different than the offline one? Are there benefits?
Guide students to identify risks, such as setting up false expectations for others, spurring violence, and depending on online communication to the detriment of in-person communication. Benefits are that you can enter interest-driven communities that you couldn’t before, you can take time to compose your thoughts before responding to others, and you can experiment with the opinions you put forth and how you present yourself.
ASK: What are other reasons why people might feel they can act in ways online that they wouldn’t act offline?
- You have time to plan what you want to say, and you can shape how you want to come across to others.
- You can’t see other people’s faces, so you don’t see their reactions.
- Because you can’t see other people, you might behave differently based on your assumptions about who you think they are and what they’re like online.
DEFINE the Key Vocabulary terms anonymous and inhibited.
- anonymous: without a name or other information that identifies who you are
- inhibited: careful or restrained about your actions or impulses
DISCUSS the idea that people may feel less inhibited when they are online. This is especially true if they are anonymous or are interacting with people who don’t know them offline. (Even when they know the people, it’s easy for people to feel anonymous when they are online, because they are alone with their computer or phone.) People might feel free to invent new personas online, or they might change particular parts of themselves.
ENCOURAGE students to think of the risks and benefits involved in being anonymous or feeling less inhibited online. Have them identify types of behaviors this might encourage, and urge them to provide concrete examples.
ASK: Are there any benefits to being anonymous or being less inhibited online?
Some reasons include:
- You might feel freer to say things you’re really thinking.
- You might be able to try things out that you can’t in the offline world.
- You can highlight or emphasize the parts of yourself that you feel good about.
ASK: Are there risks involved with being anonymous or less inhibited online?
Some reasons include:
- You are not accountable for your actions, so you might do or say things you wouldn’t offline.
- You might behave in ways that are unsafe or harmful to yourself.
- You might behave in ways that are disrespectful or harmful to others.
INTRODUCE students to the idea that it may be possible to “stay real,” even when they are representing themselves in different ways online, by staying true to who they are and to how they would treat themselves and others in the offline world.
INSTRUCT students to work in groups to come up with a set of advice for “Staying Real Online.” Examples include:
- Present yourself in a way that’s positive and not harmful to you.
- Treat people the way you would treat them in person.
- Don’t say or do things that harm other people, or betray their trust.
- Never get into a relationship that is not safe.
- Avoid getting involved in a community that is not appropriate.
INVITE groups to share their lists with the class.